Rory Said
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Game theory

Strategic incentives, not sincerity, explain a surprising amount of behaviour.

Conventional thinking

People act on sincerity and stated intentions.

Rory’s inversion

People act on incentives. A lot of sincere looking behaviour is really a strategic move in disguise.

Sutherland reads a number of ordinary social conventions as game theoretic devices in disguise: an engagement ring works as an upfront, unrecoverable expense that proves long term intent, estate agents deliberately keep buyer and seller apart because a personal dislike could scupper an otherwise rational transaction, and altruism is, on his account, frequently long term selfishness that has simply learned to look otherwise.

He's particularly interested in asymmetric incentives inside organisations: the downside of a failed unconventional idea is career damage and shame, while the upside of a safe, conventional one is a modest pat on the back, which he argues structurally biases institutions toward caution regardless of expected value. Autonomous vehicles get a similar treatment: he predicts pedestrians will exploit a driverless car's guaranteed caution once the human costs of jaywalking (fear of retribution, guilt at inconveniencing a driver) no longer apply.

The Counterpoint

Reading strategic calculation into instinctive or culturally inherited behaviour risks over intellectualising habits that people don't experience as a game at all. A ring or a bunch of flowers may be custom rather than a live strategic move anyone is consciously making.

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